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E. Vaughn Wray Funeral Establishment
Sunday February 9th, 2020
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E. Vaughn Wray Funeral Establishment
Monday February 10th, 2020

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Effidene Smith

Effidene Smith passed away on Tuesday January 28, 2020 in Sentara Norfolk General Hospital Norfolk, Virginia.

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Hey mommie I dont know if I will ever come to terms with you leaving usnot only has a space been place where I thought I could move on... but there are sleepless nights I wish u were here! I cry so many days wishing u was here feeling so lost without u! Of course you are in a better place free of pain. I just wish I could hold u one more time or just come over to pluck your brain. This pain I feel will never go away I just pray you look over me thru all my trails and errors. I miss having that shoulder to lean on and talk to without judgement. I love and miss u so much Until we meet again my sweet sweet angel

Deana Smith Aug 6 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Effidene Smith

Deana Smith Aug 6 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Effidene Smith

Angela Ellis Feb 11 2020 12:00 AM

I was so saddened by the news of Ms. Dean (Mom) she was the sweetest person to my family & I...she will be forever in our hearts...God makes no mistakes because you were the Best!! I love u all!!

DeVida & EJ Feb 5 2020 12:00 AM

Dean and I have been friends since the old Ruffner middle school.for 54 years so i knew her inside and out, her familyMs Viginia her mom.we walked for 3 years to Ruffner together.we had so much fun.got in trouble.Everything
Talk about fun, that girl was life of all parties.loud and nosey.lol.Dean this one is hard to swallow.but i know you have your wings.Fly on dear friend.We will meet again.Watch over your family.I love you dearly.

Carolyn Bolling Feb 2 2020 12:00 AM

September 21, 1979....you gave birth to me! There is hole in my heart without you Ma! In life we always feel like there is more time. We have been through so much and you have always managed to pull us through. You taught me how to be the very woman i am that stands before the world. You will always be in thoughts and share a space in my heart! God called you home and no more suffering. I love you Poopsie!! You will forever be missed

Leasha Feb 1 2020 12:00 AM

I worked with dean she was such a sweetheart im really going to miss her alot, its going be hard not knowing I can't come visit her or even see her at work in her favorite chair, in front of the door so she can see everybody because she was noisy lol. She wanted see what everybody was wearing lol. I'm also going to miss her watching me eat she loved watching me eat maybe because I looked like a fat baby to her I dont know all I know is I'm going to miss u DEAN I love u and I will never forget you I'm glad I got to meet u were truly an angel

Helena Brooks Jan 31 2020 12:00 AM

Dean was my first friend at the job NPS transportation. When I first met her I couldn't believe her age she was beautiful. Dean and I became really close really fast being she had already been my aunts best friend we shared deep conversations and laughed about everything. We shared the same birthday month and we actually got along well...to me that's unlikely...I loved her she gave me good advice and she listened and understood me. She made the best club sandwiches. I picked her alot about her love life and I wish I could just tell her what's been going on lately. I will miss her so much ....until we meet again my friend

Monicabmssmile@gmail.com Jan 31 2020 12:00 AM

She loved us

Monicabmssmile@gmail.com Jan 31 2020 12:00 AM

To my dear and lovely sister Dean, I want to thank God for allowing me to be able to talk with you before you went to be home with him. Dean, there is no words that can Express how I feel lossing a dear sister. I will always missed you and how much fun we use to have. My sister rest in peace and know that you are with your mom, husband, brother and other family and friends. Dean, you will always be loved

Annette kenion Jan 31 2020 12:00 AM

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